Seeing Stars with Mark 25 - 31 July 2009
Posted in Seeing Stars with Mark on July 24th, 2009Dear Friends,
Venus is the planet that we associate with value, finances, relationships, and love. From a more esoteric point of view, Venus symbolizes our power to attract that which we need or to recognize our resources. With respect to our own talents and values, Venus can represent our ability to “see” what we have. Venus rules the natural second house of Taurus, which is the area of our horoscope where we look to understand our innate talents and resources. These resources act as attractants, kind of like the mysterious pheromones insects use to attract each other for mating. When we are aware of our talents and resources, we can use them consciously, like the color or nectar of a flower will attract a bee for the purpose of pollination. The flower is using its resources to attract that which will, ultimately, give the flower what it wants. This is why the “principle of attraction” is so attractive to us. The idea that we can create the experiences we want to have is almost too much to accept, especially when the bulk of our daily experience is often spent reacting to that which we would rather avoid.
If we broaden our perspective of Venus from the individual in isolation to the individual in relation to others, we find that the same rule of attraction applies, only now it applies to relationships, and from here, we make the leap to love. This is Venus as the ruler of the seventh house of Libra: balancing our needs with the needs of others. Just as the recognition of our own talents and resources can lead to our conscious use of them to produce the experiences we would like to have, the conscious use of these resources will also bring us into contact with people who appreciate our ability to manage these resources, much the same way that talented performers attract audiences to their shows. By embracing their talents, they create demand for them, and the hapless audience is powerless to resist their magic. In this way, Venus both helps us to recognize our talents, and to share them with others.
The problem with the expression of Venus in our lives is that sometimes we are NOT aware of our talents or resources, OR we do NOT embrace them. There are too many reasons for this to examine them all, but I believe that my own struggle with Venus can be reduced to two main influences: the fear of rejection if I allow myself to express my unique talents, and the need to please others by giving them what they want. As a people-pleaser, any recognition I receive from others is hollow because they are recognizing something that isn’t sincerely me, but a mere shadow that I produce for them in order to experience their approval. The relationships that follow are unsatisfactory because they only allow me to present my shadow self, while my true self is denied and atrophies from lack of use.
There are many good performers in the world who do not embrace their talents. These are the amazing people we never meet, never hear about, and never pay to see on stage who are currently enjoying posthumous fame through Susan Boyle. I was an amazing astrologer for many years, but you never knew, did you? Well, I didn’t give you a chance to know because I was too busy trying to figure out what you wanted: a great English teacher? No. How about a caring and insightful realtor? No. Would you care for a yoga teacher? Getting warmer… Finally, I realized that I had a talent not only for astrology, but for communicating difficult concepts. I also had the resources necessary to support and manage my talent, and the rest, as they say, is history. I do not yet have a syndicated column with a major magazine, but if you know someone, please forward them a link to my site and tell them you love me! However, I do have two things I never had before: a purpose and a genuine love of what I do. With these two things, my entire world went from good to great! My older relationships are better because I am happier with myself. My newer relationships are more authentic because what they see in me is ME, not a mere shadow I project for them. Of course, as I began acting more authentically, I had to let some relationships go. I miss the idea of them, but I do not miss the feeling of never being able to be myself for fear of rejection.
I share all of this with you because I think many of you are like me in some way, either unsure of where your resources and talents lie, or too afraid to let them shine. This past Tuesday, July 21, we had a solar eclipse at 29 degrees Cancer and the message could not have been more clear: Let go of whatever dead weight from the past is holding you back, dragging you down, and preventing you from moving forward. Change is the natural essence of all natural processes and anything that prevents change, not matter how familiar, is an enemy of nature. We are natural beings and we must experience change if we are to experience life.
On the day of this eclipse, Venus in Gemini squared Saturn in Virgo. I have been talking so much about Saturn in Virgo for over a year now. Saturn brings structure and form to our experience. Saturn can also hold us back until we have developed the discipline we need in order to move forward and experience change. Too much change when we aren’t ready and we can get swept away, but if we are strong enough, if our foundation is strong, the winds of change will not destroy us, even if our circumstance or view is altered. Saturn in Virgo calls for a self-adjustment. The square to Venus occurring on the same day as this very strong eclipse tells us that there is a demand for us to pay attention to the details of how we attract the experiences we have. How are we failing to recognize or to use our resources and talents? How are we failing our selves and our loved ones by not being authentic in our relationships. How do we create our own financial difficulties? These are all challenges which we must face as the square plays out during this eclipse cycle. Traditional astrology dictates that the influence of an eclipse lasts as long in years as the eclipse lasts in minutes. This could mean a 6 year process of restoring Venus to her natural dignity, but personally, I think it could happen much sooner for all of us if we were able to overcome our fear and accept ourselves for who we really are, warts and all.
While squaring Saturn, Venus will also be squaring Uranus, and this could cause all sorts of unexpected sparks to fly. Uranus brings sudden and unexpected change, which many people experience as drama, because they are not able or willing to accommodate the sudden demand for change. We may loose everything, or gain everything with this transit. Unless we can accept that change brings growth and try to understand our situation in this light, we will not recognize the wealth this change offers. Uranus can also bring some heat or anger to a situation, so pay attention if the urge to argue rears its ugly head. If you are meek, then expressing this anger could be the very trigger that releases you from the past and the things that hold you back, or if you are always fighting, then resisting the urge could be what sets you free. Only you will know.
Venus will be highly aspected this coming week, with a trine to the stellium of Jupiter, Chiron, and Neptune in Aquarius. This stellium is ushering us into the Age of Aquarius by bringing a strong concentration of healing, spiritual, and mentoring energy into the sign most concerned with freedom, innovation, and consciousness. As this healing energy works its magic into our lives, we may feel more secure, more connected, and more supported by our experiences. If we are feeling more alienated, and some of us are, then we are not letting go of the past and the fear that has had its grips around us for too long. Letting go is the only solution. Neptune will dissolve for us what is not needed, Jupiter offers healing and spiritual awakening, and Chiron is there is to show us the way to turn our biggest wounds into our biggest strengths. None of this can happen until we let go and open the door to the possibility for growth and change.
Venus will be engaged in a grand air trine with this stellium and the Moon in Monday, July 27th. Pay close and special attention to what comes up for you on this day. There will be gold available that day, but you must be aware and conscious enough to see it. Gold often looks just like plain dirt until it is processed. It takes a willing and sensitive eye and an open heart to discern the special from the mundane.
There is always so much more to talk about than time allows, so I will end with a simple reminder to all: Growth = change = evolution.
Embrace this chance to grow by finding the gold in the mud.
with love
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